From the earliest days of the Christian Church, Baptism has been the way in which people become Christians and members of the Church. The Gospels tell us that Jesus himself was baptized by John the Baptist in the River Jordan and that Jesus taught his disciples to go out into the world and baptize. Jesus teaches his people that all who would enter his kingdom must be born again of water and the Spirit. Baptism is the sign and seal of this new birth.
Christian Initiation has three important elements – baptism itself, confirmation, and becoming part of the worshipping family of the Church, in which Christians regularly receive Holy Communion, the body and blood of Christ.
Those who are baptized as children must be nurtured in faith, sustained by prayer, and welcomed into the worshipping and serving life of the Church and later be brought to Confirmation (by the Bishop). But when individuals are able to answer for themselves their entry into the family of the Church should be through one act of initiation where Baptism, Confirmation and Eucharist (Holy Communion), together express the:
- turning away from darkness and sin,
- the turning to Christ,
- the washing or immersion in the waters of baptism,
- the laying on of hands by the Bishop
- the participation in the Eucharistic family of the Church.
Baptism should normally take place in church during the Eucharist. Water is poured over the head of the candidate for baptism three times in the Name of the God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit. Where it is possible, those who are older may be baptized by submersion or immersion in a body of water such as a baptismal pool. The act of baptism signifies our participation in the death of Jesus and in his Resurrection. As he died and was buried, we symbolically go down into the water of baptism with him. And as he rose from the dead, we symbolically come away from the water in his risen power, made new. For this reason baptism is often known as the Easter Sacrament and has special meaning when it occurs at Easter after a period of preparation through the season of Lent.
When children are baptized, their parents and carefully selected godparents undertake certain responsibilities. For this reason parents and godparents are usually helped and assisted beforehand in understanding their responsibilities. The local Church also has an important role in helping them to nurture their child in the new life which Baptism brings.
The Church in Wales recognises that once established patterns are giving way to a whole new way of thinking within families and communities. Many baptized children are not brought to confirmation, as once they were, and the closeness between Church and family has not been maintained. Furthermore, some would want to provide opportunity for thanksgiving at the birth of their child whilst preferring Baptism and Confirmation to be something of personal choice on the part of their child at a later adult stage.
The Church provides for children to be baptized in the hope and trust that parents and the local church together will surround them with a living faith which will sustain them throughout their lives. The Church also provides for those who come to the Christian life anew, supporting them, informing, teaching and encouraging them as they receive the grace of the Holy Spirit.
At every stage of Christian Initiation it is important for all concerned that proper preparation is made. Parents and Godparents of young children are encouraged to understand fully their responsibilities and duties in reading the Bible, in praying, and in worshipping regularly as an example to their child. Older children and adults who come to be baptized are expected to participate in a course of instruction and preparation within the Church. By their own example members of the local church are responsible to encourage and help all who come to Christ. They may be present at all stage of this process, welcoming and embracing the newly baptized and confirmed in the fellowship of the Lord Jesus Christ.
If you intend to arrange a baptism for a child, please read the section below before you telephone or email the clergy, and remember that the parish priest cannot baptise someone who does not live in his parish. You must contact your own parish priest if you live outside Caerau & Ely.
What Happens in the Service
At the beginning of the service the parents and godparents are told what the church expects of them. Each child must be taught
- to worship on Sundays
- to know the Lord’s Prayer and the Commandments of the Lord
- to read the Holy Bible.
In Baptism the parents and godparents make 3 decisions for the child:
- to reject evil
- to repent of sin
- to turn to Christ
They also make three decisions announcing clearly that they
- believe in God, who made the world
- believe that Jesus died and rose from the dead
- believe that God sends his Holy Spirit to us all to help us in our daily lives as we try to live as Christians
If parents and godparents do not play their part then the child will not get far on the journey of faith.
Do you mean to keep the promises you will make?
There will be a rehearsal for the baptism.
If you don’t come to the rehearsal the baptism will be cancelled.
If enough people believe you don’t have to go to church to be a Christian, then before too long there will be very few Christian churches left open for you to ask for your child to be baptised.
If you’re interested in your child getting baptised within the parish please email firstname.lastname@example.org